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Helping a Loved One with Bipolar Disorder: Children, Teens, and Family

Seeded on Tue Feb 23, 2010 11:12 PM EST
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If someone close to you has bipolar disorder, your love and support can make a difference in treatment and recovery. You can help by learning about the illness, offering hope and encouragement, keeping track of symptoms, and being a partner in treatment. But caring for a person with bipolar disorder will take a toll if you neglect your own needs, so it's important to find a balance between supporting your loved one and taking care of yourself.

This really hits home for me. My husband and son are both bipolar.

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Fed up in Missouri

I just learned today that you are supposed to make a comment on your articles and seeds or no one may see it. So here. I've made my comment. lol

  • 3 votes
Reply#1 - Thu Mar 4, 2010 10:34 PM EST
Robert Erickson

An excellent article. Very informative and I like the common sense advice, better than some I've read.

God knows what he's doing Fed. We'll find out later. You are on my end of the night prayer list. Although, I'm sure you're doing a fine job, it won't hurt will it?

  • 2 votes
Reply#2 - Thu Apr 29, 2010 4:31 AM EDT
Fed up in Missouri

Thank you Robert. No it won't hurt. I'll take all the prayers I can get!! lol I do the best I can. My husband is actually Schizo-effective with Bipolar. So my husband and son's symptoms are different. Both are a challenge sometimes, but I love them so it is worth it! :)

  • 3 votes
#2.1 - Fri Apr 30, 2010 8:31 PM EDT
Robert Erickson

They're probably better company than many alleged "normal" people.

  • 1 vote
#2.2 - Sat May 1, 2010 3:57 AM EDT
Fed up in Missouri

Yeah they are a lot of company. lol Robert I've learned there is no "normal". Everybody has something. :)

  • 2 votes
#2.3 - Sat May 1, 2010 1:03 PM EDT
Robert Erickson

Yes. I said that as someone with experience, not to be rude. I just re-read it. Speaking in person, is quite different than putting it in the written word.

  • 2 votes
#2.4 - Sat May 1, 2010 7:46 PM EDT
Fed up in Missouri

lol Robert I never thought you were trying to be rude! I didn't mean to sound like I did. :)

  • 2 votes
#2.5 - Sun May 2, 2010 11:22 PM EDT
Robert Erickson

I know. Sometimes I read these things back and I wonder about what I've said. It's quite different from speaking in person. I can see how people get in trouble with the press.

Thank you.

  • 2 votes
#2.6 - Sun May 2, 2010 11:56 PM EDT
Fed up in Missouri

It is different than speaking in person, but I usually have a pretty good "feel" for what people mean and how they feel on "paper".

  • 2 votes
#2.7 - Mon May 3, 2010 12:08 AM EDT
Robert Erickson

Yes, agreed. I'm just in the process of getting used to it. Their personalities come through.

  • 2 votes
#2.8 - Mon May 3, 2010 12:11 AM EDT
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ERich-356044

Fed up...

I would love to email chat.... my coworker I believe has some bi-polar or multiple personality tendencies.... I have no clue how to approach her at times. Problem is she doesn't know ... or she knows and is not sharing or trying to keep it from us. It is quite obvious though.

E

  • 2 votes
Reply#3 - Fri Apr 30, 2010 9:45 PM EDT
Fed up in Missouri

No problem E! I will email you right away. I will do my best to help. :) She may not be aware though, but most likely she is and she just isn't open about it. A lot of people hide mental illness. There has always been such a stigma with it. For the life of me, I can't figure out why!! Our brains are a part of our bodies. If our arm got broke we'd get it fixed, why not our brain??? Brains are so complex they are bound to have some glitches.

  • 3 votes
#3.1 - Sat May 1, 2010 1:07 PM EDT
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Tiredofit-946833

WOW this is an issue I have been dealing with for the last 12 years with my (non biological) granddaughter and her brother has asbergers syndrome. When my then girlfriend and I were together we had them dropped off with us for the weekend, four months later we still had them. I took my GF to the county courthouse and talked with a judge in 30 minutes we had full custody. Did alot of research on the issues we were slowly finding out what the diagnosis was (their mother was a meth head) (dad too but he was in prison) and found out that Flax seed oil mixed in with her meals did wonder to calm her outbreaks. Sadly 3 years later her mother (after rehab) got them back and now my old GF has them again. They are a handful and since I am the only Grandpa they know I still take them some weekends and go do things with them. Since their mother didnt care for them (food and nutrition) they have both been placed in a special school and even with all the "trained" experts she is constantly in trouble for violent outburst and physical attacks. I finally got in contact with the state case worker and doctor they have told them of my research. Now between the meds and diet (flax added) she is alot more controllable, with fewer violent outbreaks. Not sure if this story will help your situation Fed but hey it is worth a shot !! hugs !!!

  • 3 votes
Reply#4 - Fri Apr 30, 2010 10:01 PM EDT
Fed up in Missouri

Wow Tired!! Hugs back atcha! In June it will be 13 years for me. I don't know anyone with asbergers, but I am familiar with what it is. Isn't it a shame when the courts put children right back in a harmful situation. Shame on them!!! Good for you and your ex for having hearts big enough to take care of them!! :) Flax seed?! I'll have to give that a shot. Never heard that one. I did have people suggest that I have him tested for allergies because sometimes that can make people behave badly because they are so irritated from the allergy. He's not allergic to anything so that didn't help me. Might help someone else. Us parents/grandparents of kids with special needs have to stick together!! :)

  • 3 votes
#4.1 - Sat May 1, 2010 1:17 PM EDT
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neenie1991

Great find Fed, with great advice. I'm in the down cycle right now so I've got nothing to offer except spread the word!

  • 2 votes
Reply#5 - Fri Apr 30, 2010 10:26 PM EDT
Fed up in Missouri

Gotcha neenie!! ;)

(((neenie)))

  • 2 votes
#5.1 - Sat May 1, 2010 1:22 PM EDT
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fugitive247

Fed, this medically diagnosed, recovering bi-polar/PTSD/addict sincerely thanks you for sharing this page. Funny thing is that when approached objectively, the info and tips it contains are worthwhile for we bi-polars to practice on ourselves. =)

Clipped to the Bipolar Support Group.

  • 3 votes
Reply#6 - Sat May 1, 2010 4:21 PM EDT
Fed up in Missouri

Thank you for clipping it fugitive! I'm glad you found it useful. I'm always trying to find new ways for me, and my bipolar loved ones to cope. They think my husband probably has PTSD too. (((fugitive))) :)

  • 3 votes
#6.1 - Sun May 2, 2010 11:26 PM EDT
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Schurge

I have Bi-Polar.

I've found that too many parents tip toe and baby their kids/teens that have it. All you really need to do is figure out when telling them to cheer up is not something you should do, get them on the appropriate meds, and let them have 'alone' time. Otherwise you will just be ridden over and the one with bi-polar won't ever grow up and get over it (once again I have it I can be insensitive). I see so many kids use their condition to steamroll their parents.

  • 2 votes
Reply#7 - Mon May 3, 2010 9:47 AM EDT
Fed up in Missouri

Schurge I think that is so true. The problem is how do I know as a parent when my son for example can help it, and when he can't? I have a lot of trouble with that unfortunately.

  • 2 votes
#7.1 - Tue May 11, 2010 4:45 PM EDT
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